Which Camera to buy in below 35000 price range? - 1

Hi.actually it was a dream for me to buy a camera(NIKON or CANON) for many year i was wishing, so when it comes closer to buy a camera i'm actually confused. Its because i'm confuse with DSLR or Bridge camera(Long Zoom-Point and Shoot) to buy. Also adding more detail i actually like to take distance photos(long zoom) also meeting low light conditions in the night photos. Also adding i like to buy a DSLR camera but with the money in my hand (about 35000) i can't but a long ranged(in zoom) DSLR camera.
some of the cameras that i have researched through this period: Nikon series P510, D3100, D3200, D5100 & CANON series SX40HS, 1100D, 550D
so kindly please provide a suitable suggestion for which camera (also any other cameras you can suggest) to buy within my price range

thanks in advance

Added (1). Its not a case of mixing both DSLR and point and shoot… I'm actually confused with long zoom of point and shoot(bridge camera) and DSLR, long shoot with high price range(my budget only 35000)

You have very different price ranges because you are mixing DSLRS with point and shoots.

Are you sure you have $35, 000 saved up? Good god…

I wouldn't even consider a point and shoot if you have that much money. Out of the three Nikon cameras you listed, the D5100 is the best choice in my opinion.